I am pleased to join the Groking Wholeness community as I begin a new monthly series entitled Aging Into Wholeness.
For most of my adult life, I have been interested in a discovering the answer to a simple question: What helps people continue to grow when life changes?
That question has followed me through several careers and many seasons of life. I served for twenty-six years in the USAF, spent more than four decades in clinical practice as a physician assistant, and later worked as a university educator and program director. Over time, my professional interests widened to include psychology, counseling, health promotion, spirituality, pastoral care, grief, caregiving, and the role of community in human well-being. My wife and I have only been married for 6 years. So I guess you can say I'm an elderly newlywed!
Today, I also serve as a Community Educator for the Alzheimer’s Association, helping individuals, families, caregivers, and community groups better understand Alzheimer’s disease, dementia, brain health, caregiving, and the resources available to support people through cognitive change. That work has reinforced something I learned many years ago in medicine: a person is always more than a diagnosis.
We may measure memory, mobility, blood pressure, cognition, and function, but none of those measures tells us who a person is. Human beings remain shaped by relationships, memories, values, hopes, fears, humor, faith, and the basic need to know that their lives still matter.
That conviction has become increasingly important to me as I have grown older myself.